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How did you make your most recent genuine adult friend? I went alone and didn’t know anyone and I ended up meeting her and hitting it off.This past weekend she was the maid of honor in my wedding!You don’t have to go out of your way to make time for someone when they’re at a place you already go to.PLUS, it ends up being good incentive to go to the gym when that’s where your friends are!What did this experience teach you about making friends as an adult?Don’t be embarrassed about seeming “desperate” when trying to establish a relationship with someone new.
It’s definitely a strange breed of relationship, and feels very different from high school/college/law school friends.But it also can, at times, be more fulfilling, because these people know more about my life as it is NOW, versus what my life was five or 10 years ago.I think it’s important to have both old and new friends!You know what they say — the best stuff bubbles up in the most unlikely of places.
Let your ear remind you of that the next time you’re at a pottery class.
I would regularly text her to meet up and get drinks.