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Benefits of chatting online is that you do not have to worry about whom you are talking to.
Depression kills your mood and motivation of doing things and that is not good even for a second.
Relationship counselling agencies report that a growing number of couples are now seeking help due to infidelity online or to one partner accessing adult websites.
How much of a problem it is, depends on the degree and type of access and what it means in the context of the marriage.
Up until this, I thought things were okay in our marriage, though of course we haven’t had much couple time with the demands of four children but this discovery has come as a bolt out of the blue.
It wouldn’t have been as bad if he was just accessing porn, as I know men do this, but the fact that he was talking to other people has really disgusted me.
My husband is a great father and has always been very hands-on with the children who really love him and I don’t want to end up separated.
For example you can prioritise a daily talking time with your husband when you share how each of you are doing.You are not alone, there are 350 million people worldwide who suffer depression.Most of the time an anti-depressant may sort out your problem but believe me that is not the best way to get rid of it as medicine is not the ultimate cure for it.Such intimacy is built on communication and friendship and leads to deep affection and a satisfying sex life.
However, creating this intimacy is hard work and much harder than the easy escapism of the internet or watching TV or even over-working or domestic chores.
Of course your husband should not blame you and he must take responsibility for how he has hurt you with his online behaviour, but the two of you must take responsibility for improving the marriage.