Comparison essay on online and traditional dating
(It’s true, who do you think will be better at meeting women, the guy who has been told no 6 times, or the guy who has been told no 5,000?
)If you’re not the club or bar type of guy try the coffee shop, bookstore or even take a random night class at a local university.
Do something you like doing and, with luck, there may be a woman or two there that will catch your eye.
It’s always easier to start a conversation over shared interests than going in cold at a bar/club (Learn more about that here).
One of the great things about hitting the bar or club is that you can get to know women right away in an informal setting, so you can tell right away if there is any chemistry and, if there is, great! Meeting someone out requires you taking that giant leap of faith.
You’re putting yourself out there, and it takes confidence as you’re opening yourself up to possibly getting shot down.
It’s clear not necessary, and you can have success from just one.
But doubling up and mastering all areas of dating life will yield a higher probability of success, and ultimately a better you.
So the verdict is that you should 100% be learning how to pick up and meet women in real life.
But if you’re not out actually having a life as well, you’re not going to have anything to offer to the women online.
And while you’re getting out of your house anyway, you may as well go out and meet people, so why not do online dating AND hit up the bar/club/bookstore?
This is confidence that you won’t develop no matter how many Russian models you instant message.
And when you’re surrounded by your friends if you get rejected, just laugh it off and think of it as if every ‘no’ means you’re a step closer to finding that special someone.
For starters, every now and then everyone loves a good night out with friends.