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You are not doing yourself any favors by dumping on your ex or detailing your five-year custody battle.
All you are doing is revealing your crazy side and scaring the sane people away.
All you need to say is “I have children” or “my children are grown.” A decent person doesn’t need to know anything more than that to decide whether or not they’d like to go on a date with you.I have seen parents lie about dating, sometimes for years, and when the child eventually finds out, they can be devastated.You don’t want to introduce your children to who you are dating, but you do want them to know that you are dating again and are not getting back together with the ex.By being authentic you allow them to get to know the full you—not just the parts you feel keen to show. If you want to reach out and express gratitude or enjoyment for the time spent together, do so! While open communication is important, this does not mean you should send eight messages for their one. All too often we enter into a new connection and become consumed by it.
Do not withhold communication or fail to follow up until a certain amount of time has passed as a means of playing a game or otherwise gain the upper hand. There is nothing more annoying than having several messages waiting for you before you can even reply to one. We stop visiting our friends and doing the things that lend fortification to our foundation. Stalking their Facebook page (or Instagram, for that matter) is NOT cool.It’s far more fun to allow a natural mysteriousness that comes with slowly getting to know someone rather than overdosing on their Facebook status updates from the last five years. These days more relationships start from what were once casual affairs—meaning that the sex came before anything else.