Dr phils advice regarding sex and dating
Research and personal experience have proven to me otherwise. (Women, on the other hand, says Harvey, will love a man “no matter what,” even if her “friends say he’s no good” and he “continually slams the door” on the relationship—.) Harvey certainly has a right to his opinion.
I just wish his insights weren’t presented as “the truth” about how men think or so encouraging of a sexist mindset.
You could end up putting your whole life on hold for this man. Unless he divorces his wife right away, you just don't know how long you will wait. What kind of person takes up with someone else while still married?
He might tell you he and his wife are both OK with the situation, but you just don't know.
If only his philosophies regarding men, women and romantic relationships weren’t so problematic…**Harvey does say that once we’ve passed the 90 day “probation” period with our partners, we can give it (sex) out “like sandwiches at a picnic.” I imagine some women might find empowerment in that. Harvey doesn’t state this outright, but he’s only steps away. While “real men” will wait for sex, according to Harvey, he asserts that all guys want and will pursue sex as soon as women are willing to give it. (I explored this a bit in my Sex and the Single Girl post.) I know countless awesome men who respect women regardless of their sexual ideals, and many who desire committed relationships as much or equally as many gals.