Lesbian friend dating lovers
This probably won’t be one either (just managing expectations! Having fielded years of queer women’s dating advice questions through this job, I can tell you that by far one of the most common questions is a variation on “I’m in love with my best friend; should I tell her?” (There’s a subcategory of this question wherein the best friend is straight; I’m not going to address that here because unfortunately I have nothing to offer you but prayer.) Your needs are better served here and here.As for questions of how it will change your friendship — in either scenario, whether she’s also into you or not — this is also not really a factor you can plan for.You might be able to work through it if you’re on different pages and get to a really healthy place and it could make your friendship stronger; it might also not be something you can ever really return to a time before. ) think you know how you would deal with that eventuality, you could be wrong; we surprise ourselves.There also isn’t a lot I can tell you even if your bff isn’t straight — the answer to ‘is this a good idea?
After I told my best friend that I loved her in 2007 and found out it was not reciprocated, I thought I’d never get over it.The first time I fell for a girl, it was my best friend in college.