Not lonely anymore dating
If I don’t look for the silver lining…what is the purpose to the bad things that happen?! The truth is…I don’t know exactly why I’m still single. But something changed along the way and that’s not my experience anymore.
Just make sure you tag your posts #You Are Enough30 so we can all follow each other’s journeys!
Maybe I’m just getting old, but my days of active dating app use and putting myself out there has been put on hold. There’s this big misconception out there that being single is an unfortunate relationship status for women — like something must be wrong with you if you’re not in a relationship. Not being in a relationship isn’t the end of the world and just because you're not seeing anyone right now, it doesn't mean you're going to die alone.
When you’re being bombarded by couples everywhere, it seems like the universe just wants to laugh in your face and drag you down. Here's what nobody tells you about being single and not dating: Too many people associate not dating with being lonely but plenty of people choose to not date when they're single.
When you’re single and not dating, there are so many possibilities.
You don’t have the emotional energy to invest into another person. That’s already a good amount of savings right there.Just because you’re single, it doesn’t mean you can’t go out on dates. Take a dance class that you’ve always wanted to learn.Go walk in the park and just immerse yourself in nature. Being single is a time when you can enjoy yourself and find passion in your life that doesn’t involve a bedroom. Singles, like those in relationships, can’t be categorized into two types, i.e.I mean, the entire thing can be a complete and total mindf*ck, and you’re not even technically “with” the person.
Just think of how things will be when you’re actually in a relationship.
Just because I’m not actively dating, it doesn’t mean I’m going to turn every guy down who approaches me.