Sexual relations and dating
The importance of sex in a healthy relationship cannot be understated. See, as a guy, it’s definitely one of the most important things if not THE most important thing. On the other hand, many women would say it’s just as important, but may be more likely to overlook the issue if everything else in the relationship is going well. It bonds and connects two people in ways that few other things can. What’s really happened is that there has been a union between two people that transcends time and space. But, heck, it sure does mean that it helps bring us together. I know many women may be saying that they just can’t have sex when they don’t feel close to their partner. Consider that the simple act of saying “yes” to your partner, and to passion, may begin to shift the dynamic.
Here’s a simple way to sum things up: Men often choose a woman based upon the sex (or the prospect of it), and end up falling in love; while generally choose a man based upon the love they feel, and end up enjoying sex. If you’re both honoring each other correctly, sex will most likely help you feel closer to your love.
One of the byproducts of all that (though some might argue it to actually be the cause) is that we quit having sex. Often, I’d feel sexually frustrated and felt resentment towards my ex because we weren’t being intimate. We all know how close we feel to someone after we have sex.
This continued on and on so that we continued to grow apart over time. Many experts approach relationship challenges from the “deficiency model.” In this model, they identify what isn’t working, and work to fix those problems. Something is broken, so What doesn’t jive with this approach is that it doesn’t typically address what is the core issue—a solid foundation in the relationship. Rather, his approach is all about creating a solid foundation in the relationship.
If you're not sure where you guys are at, try to discuss it with the other person.
If you've only been on 1-2 dates, though, it might be best to wait a bit longer.
Foreplay is lots of fun and definitely helps set the tone for better lovemaking.I’d love to hear more about your experience of love and sex in your life, please feel free to share your comments below.