Going for a private session is going to set you back.I recommend spending time in the open chat rooms and asking different women about their limits before treating yourself to some one-on-one. Who’s tying themselves up and who’s teasing themselves to new heights of ecstasy? Throw in a bit of pussy paddling and spanking for good measure.Just remember to keep the circulation flowing and the temperature at a level that is safe.Whether you’re a dom or a sub, you probably love the feel of ropes.
Don’t wait for a mistress to stomp on your balls or put you on a very tight leash. Or pick up a ball stretcher to really expose your nuts to light whipping, dripping wax, or icy sensations. Consider clamps, clothes pins, mousetraps, or chopsticks with elastics.Try masturbating until you reach the plateau phase just before climax, then slow down just enough to avoid orgasming. For some, flogging is all about the pain, but most will report that the real excitement comes from the release of endorphins.Keep yourself at this level as long as you can before ultimately coming, or deny yourself altogether for some good ole orgasm denial. You’ll find it easy to whip your back and legs and with a little practice you’ll also be able to get at your backside.For safety sake, make sure you don’t get yourself into something you can’t get out of, and be aware that using gags can be dangerous when you’re alone.
If you want to a try a ball gag alone without risking suffocation, try a whiffle ball with a scarf threaded through for a breathing passage. It can be very intense to tease yourself into hovering just a notch before climax, and when you finally decide to let yourself come, the orgasm is often bigger and better than usual.You can be alone at home and still find a playmate to interact with online. The less expensive option is to join a bdsm dating site with live video and audio chatrooms, make new friends, and have really naughty webcam sex.