Tips dating women older than you


13-Aug-2020 10:02

If you've ever felt a spark with a guy eight or more years your junior but hesitated to give things a try, you might have told yourself it'll never work.

The fact that most movies involving an older woman/younger man love story don't end well has helped cement that concept as a cultural truth—except, it's true. Yes, the dynamic brings a unique set of challenges—but it can also be pretty great, whether the goal a fling or a long-term relationship.

"People fundamentally treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated, and will otherwise behave in the manner that's most consistent with their style or comfort level.

So by setting the tone you may avoid frustrations."We might've come a long way, but there's still a particular stigma around the older woman/younger man relationship.

But peers and outsiders put undue pressure on them to change things, and this added a level of stress to their relationship."Carbino agrees that couples will need to develop "resiliency," and a strategy regarding how to deal with criticism from friends, family, and strangers who don't understand the attraction.

Plus, as Sherman says, refusing to "succumb to outer social pressure, shame, stigma or limiting beliefs" will help your relationship survive.

Jess Carbino, the former in-house sociologist for dating apps Tinder and Bumble, says that her research with women over fifty revealed a strong desire to date men eight or more years younger, in part because they assume that age group will be more open to new experiences.

That's enjoyable for a man at any age, contributing to a sex life Sherman deems "energetic." Whether it's an established career, well-raised kids, or stories from those years you spent backpacking around Europe, you have "Sometimes younger men are awed and inspired by a successful woman, while older men can feel competitive with her," says Sherman, who also points to the generational evolution in how younger people view gender roles.



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