When dating but not divorced why
Despite the fact that our relationship became more than just friends, we both pride our relationship on the fact that our friendship is the most important thing to us both.
Do you think that returning to a platonic friendship now would benefit us – potentially allowing for a long-term relationship in the future? When people begin dating after divorce, they have certain criteria, conditions, and qualities they are looking for, which are probably continually changing.
The problem is this; I met someone online and we really connected.
A quick background: I met him about a year ago through work.
We remained platonic for about 5 months but over time we’ve eventually evolved into something more.
I realize that this situation is difficult, especially since the marriage is not officially over.
” but rather, “Does he seem emotionally ready for a relationship? ” Those questions are more important than a piece of paper showing that your divorce is final (in my opinion.) I will say this.
Dating a guy who isn’t divorced yet can blow up in your face. The guy could have intentions of getting back with the wife, or he could be a complete mess who is in desperate need of therapy. A guy who is officially divorced could be that way, too!
Or, maybe they think think he’s just covering up his pain with a Band-aid, the Band-aid being a new girlfriend.I’m heading into the permanent separation stage with the outcome being divorce. However, she does not want to proceed until my divorce is finalized. Should I forget about her or text her from time to time?