White guys dating asian women


25-Feb-2020 13:37

In Asia, there’s a lot of shame surrounding intimacy that is so damaging and dysfunctional Many Asian girls are programmed to suppress their interest in sex and intimacy, hide it or deny it.If they display or admit at all that they want or even like sex or touch, they risk being seen as a “slut” — in Japan they’re called a “bitch” or in China/HK, a “public toilet.” Their sense of self is at risk, and their reputation is at risk if they show an interest in sex.These challenges can be common with Asian girls, and is a virtual certainty with native Asian girls.Not all Asian cultures are the same, but most have commonalities that are similar or consistent in most.Views on sex, status, interracial dating, affection in public, marriage, humor and even talking to strangers can be taboo.An example of this would be in Korea — heavy eye contact can be considered rude, and thus giving a girl eye contact may cause anxiety instead of attraction.Obviously the black guy is the only person who can truly know what it’s like to be a black guy right?Also a black guy who’s gone to Denny’s many many times would have even a more accurate opinion on the matter.

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To make an analogy, imagine you heard people say over and over, “Waitresses at Denny’s restaurants hate black guys.” Now ask yourself whose opinion on this would matter: An individual waitress who works at one Denny’s, a random customer who’s gone to Denny’s a few times, or a black guy who’s gone to Denny’s twice a day everyday for three years straight in every state in the entire country?In the United States, if two strangers are walking by each other, it’s common to say “hello,” “good morning,” or “how are you! It’s not that they don’t like you, it’s that they have no practice talking to strangers and it’s outside of their reality.